Can't? The answer is a little too pat.

Interesting. It seems obvious to me, yo. I mean, our bodies, our hands aren't just dumb, insensate beasts. They are us, as much as our brain is us. When us touches us, all is safe and good. When someone else touches us-*yikes! *

It makes me think about, of all things, masturbation. Or, rather, unmasturbation.

Confession: Masturbation seldom works for me.

I think it's for the same sort of reason. It's MY hands, MY body, MY mind. It's all too... Safe? I guess perhaps I need an element of danger/risk, of knowing it's someone else(albeit someone who loves me very much)there, touching me, someone with their own intentions and desires. There has to be that unpredictable, mysterious element of *yikes!* to really get me hot. And you can't fake that.

Or at least I can't.

;)